Plan

Postpone or call off

What is refundable, by when, the notice required and what you would lose. Earliest deadline first.

Team can see all of this, and only the couple can call the wedding off.
TimelineRun of showLicenseMove the datePostpone or call off
Up to $14,200

Of the $21,748 you paid, what can move to a new date on paper, and none of it is guaranteed. Hacienda's $13,000 needs a date it has open, named by Wed Sep 16; Lumen's $1,200 moves "if available". No paper prices a postponement, so the other $7,548 is a question for each vendor. from your document

Wedding insurance lists $25,000 of cancellation cover for named causes, with notice within 30 days of the cause. It is not subtracted here, because it depends on why. The policy, p. 3, §5
The one open questionRosela flags it, and does not choose
Hacienda §11 and §11.1 disagree, and $14,996 rests on it
§11: "Cancellation within 60 days of the event: 100% of the contract is due." That window opened Tue Aug 18. §11.1: "With notice at least 30 days before the event, amounts paid above the deposit are returned." Ask Renee by Wed Sep 16: §11.3's free date change ends that day, and the §11.1 window closes the next. The same email asks about the load-out, 12:00 am at §9.3 against 12:30 am at §13.
To: renee@haciendadelcedro.example, from ana-y-jose-4f2@inbox.rosela.app
Hi Renee, two things in our contract read differently, and we would like to know which holds. First, §11 says 100% is due within 60 days of the event, and §11.1 says amounts above the deposit are returned with 30 days' notice: which one applies if we ever had to cancel or postpone before Sep 16? Second, load-out is 12:00 am at §9.3 and 12:30 am at §13, and Lone Star Rentals plans to pick up by 12:30 am on October 18: which time holds? Thank you, Ana and José
Earliest firstAsk byPaidMoves on paperPaper is silent
Hacienda del Cedro
Contract, p. 7, §11.3: "One date change at no fee, more than 30 days before the event, subject to availability"
Wed Sep 16Ana, $13,000$13,000 with a new date$0
Lone Star Rentals
Contract, p. 2, §5 names cancelling, not moving
Wed Sep 16José, $1,500$0$1,500
Hotel Colorado block
Agreement, §5.1: it releases Thu Sep 17 whether you postpone or not, and the floor is billed after that, up to $7,098
Thu Sep 17Nothing yet$0$0
Lumen Photo
HoneyBook contract, §8: "Retainer moves to a new date if available"
Not statedJosé, $1,200$1,200 if available$0
Barton Bar Co., Bloom & Vine, Sonido Lago
No paper names a new date
Not stated$3,400$0$3,400
Prensa Papel, rings, insurance premium
Invitations carry the old date, the policy ends Oct 18, and the rings are kept
Not stated$2,648$0$2,648
Padre Miguel Torres, Iglesia de San Ignacio
No paper on file. The Mass date is his to give, so ask him first.
Not statedNothing yet$0$0
Total$21,748Up to $14,200$7,548 to $21,748

Each clause is read from your paper, and silence counts as nothing. The $35,068 left to pay keeps its dates and its reminders until each vendor answers. The hotel's floor, up to $7,098, is not in these totals. Elena's $1,500 is hers, so tell her first. Not legal advice. Have a date in mind? Move the date

A kind message, waiting

To each vendor, one by one
Who gets it: 11 vendors you hired, each from the wedding inbox
We need to postpone our wedding, with no new date yet. We will write as soon as we know, and we would love to keep working with you. Please tell us what you need from us. Ana and José
To 58 households, in their own languages
Who gets it: 52 by email, 4 by paper, 2 through a named relative
Our wedding is postponed, and everyone is well. We will write again when we have a new date.
Pospusimos nuestra boda, y todos estamos bien. Les escribiremos cuando tengamos una nueva fecha.

Then

Once you both confirm, a line says so on every screen. Hold deadlines pause, never deleted, so a postponement can become a new date. The hotel's does not: it releases Thu Sep 17 either way, so that reminder keeps running, and so do payment reminders while money stays due.