Postpone or call off
What is refundable, by when, the notice required and what you would lose. Earliest deadline first.
Of the $21,748 you paid, what can move to a new date on paper, and none of it is guaranteed. Hacienda's $13,000 needs a date it has open, named by Wed Sep 16; Lumen's $1,200 moves "if available". No paper prices a postponement, so the other $7,548 is a question for each vendor. from your document
What calling it off today would cost: what you would lose, plus what your papers say you would still owe. The range is one open question, below. Another $14,170 sits on papers that say nothing, and the hotel can bill its floor after Thu Sep 17, up to $7,098, so the top could reach $54,544. from your document
| Earliest first | Ask by | Paid | Moves on paper | Paper is silent |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Hacienda del Cedro Contract, p. 7, §11.3: "One date change at no fee, more than 30 days before the event, subject to availability" | Wed Sep 16 | Ana, $13,000 | $13,000 with a new date | $0 |
| Lone Star Rentals Contract, p. 2, §5 names cancelling, not moving | Wed Sep 16 | José, $1,500 | $0 | $1,500 |
| Hotel Colorado block Agreement, §5.1: it releases Thu Sep 17 whether you postpone or not, and the floor is billed after that, up to $7,098 | Thu Sep 17 | Nothing yet | $0 | $0 |
| Lumen Photo HoneyBook contract, §8: "Retainer moves to a new date if available" | Not stated | José, $1,200 | $1,200 if available | $0 |
| Barton Bar Co., Bloom & Vine, Sonido Lago No paper names a new date | Not stated | $3,400 | $0 | $3,400 |
| Prensa Papel, rings, insurance premium Invitations carry the old date, the policy ends Oct 18, and the rings are kept | Not stated | $2,648 | $0 | $2,648 |
| Capitol Coach Contract, p. 2, §5: says nothing about a new date | Not stated | Nothing yet | $0 | $0 |
| Padre Miguel Torres, Iglesia de San Ignacio No paper on file. The Mass date is his to give, so ask him first. | Not stated | Nothing yet | $0 | $0 |
| Total | $21,748 | Up to $14,200 | $7,548 to $21,748 |
Each clause is read from your paper, and silence counts as nothing. The $35,068 left to pay keeps its dates and its reminders until each vendor answers. The hotel's floor, up to $7,098, is not in these totals. Elena's $1,500 is hers, so tell her first. Not legal advice. Have a date in mind? Move the date
| Earliest first | Notice by | Paid | Back | Lost | Still owed |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Barton Bar Co. Contract, p. 3, §6: "Inside 60 days the full balance is due" | Passed Tue Aug 18 | Ana, $1,500 | $0 | $1,500 | $5,032 |
| Lone Star Rentals Contract, p. 2, §5: "Deposit kept inside 30 days", so day 30 is already too late. It says nothing about the $4,890 balance. | Wed Sep 16 | José, $1,500 | $1,500 | $0 | Not stated |
| Hacienda del Cedro Contract, p. 7, §11 and §11.1, which disagree. ask Renee. §11.1 takes notice "at least 30 days before", so day 30 still counts. | Thu Sep 17 | Ana, $13,000 | $7,000 or $0 | $6,000 or $13,000 | $0 or $7,996 |
| Hotel Colorado block Agreement, §5.1: the floor is billed after release, up to $7,098 | Thu Sep 17 | Nothing yet | $0 | $0 | $0 before release, up to $7,098 after |
| Bloom & Vine Contract: no cancellation term in its 8 figures | Not stated | Elena, $1,500 | $0 | $1,500 | Not stated |
| Lumen Photo HoneyBook contract, §8: "Retainer moves to a new date if available." It states no refund for calling off. | Not stated | José, $1,200 | $0 | $1,200 | Not stated |
| Sonido Lago Contract, p. 1: no cancellation term | Not stated | José, $400 | $0 | $400 | Not stated |
| Prensa Papel, rings, insurance premium Printed, spent or kept. A ring return would lower this, and Receipts takes it. | No term | $2,648 | $0 | $2,648 | $0 |
| Padre Miguel Torres, Iglesia de San Ignacio No paper on file. The $450 offering is due Sat Oct 10, so tell him before then. | Not stated | Nothing yet | $0 | $0 | Not stated |
| Capitol Coach Contract, p. 2, §5: "Deposit kept inside 30 days" | Thu Sep 17 | Nothing yet | $0 | $0 | Not stated |
| Total | $21,748 | $1,500 to $8,500 | $13,248 to $20,248 | $5,032 to $13,028 |
Each clause above is read from your paper; where a paper says nothing, this page says so and counts nothing. Not counted, because the paper is silent: $14,170 in balances (Lone Star $4,890, Bloom & Vine $3,000, Lumen $3,000, Sonido Lago $1,250, Mariachi $800, Dulce Luna $780, the parish offering $450). Ask each vendor. Not counted, because it comes after release: the hotel's floor, up to $7,098; no clause says it falls away if you cancel first, so ask Joanna. Elena's $1,500 and $3,000 are hers, so tell her first. Back, by payer: José $1,500, Ana $0 or $7,000. Not legal advice.
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Once you both confirm, a line says so on every screen. Hold deadlines pause, never deleted, so a postponement can become a new date. The hotel's does not: it releases Thu Sep 17 either way, so that reminder keeps running, and so do payment reminders while money stays due.
Reminders and hold deadlines pause, never deleted. Anything your papers still say you owe stays in Owed.
Money above $500 takes both of you, by your rules. Everything you made is kept, and you can export it. What happens to billing